Having been the victim of a stalker, I would suggest the following. First, ask your boss if this is grounds for revoking his library privileges. Then, if so, next time he approaches you, tell him in no uncertain terms that you do not encourage personal relationships with patrons and that continued abuse will result in the loss of his privileges. If there is no way to remove him from the library, I would think seriously about documenting these incidents and applying for a restraining order.
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Date: 2007-03-07 10:57 pm (UTC)People like this are sick. Get him off you.